My son turns 5 on Saturday, and that is ridiculous. There’s no way he’s already 5 years old.
Have you ever fallen in love with a song so much it made you cry? It happens to me all the time. And it happened to him this weekend. He fell hard for this song from the end credits in the Captain Underpants movie – and yes, that is a weird thing to fall in love with, but far be it for me to deprive him of a cathartic response to art; the heart wants what it wants. We listened to it in the car on the way to swim class, and when I went to get him out of the car I noticed that he was sniffly and sad, and I asked him what was wrong, and he said “Daddy I love you”, and that the song made him “happy sad”, and he said he loved me again and he gave me a big hug and dried his eyes on my shoulder, and my heart melted all over the parking lot of the West Essex YMCA.
We have our basement back! And it only took 2 weeks! The longest and most stressful 2 weeks of our lives as homeowners, but still! I can’t begin to explain how relieved I am to have everything back up and running again.
Of course, there are still some things that need to be replaced. My computer desk(s) got kinda fucked up during the renovation, and my computers are still busted (though not due to the flooding), and so on and so on. But the point is, you can hang out down there again. Which means I’ll have more stuff to write about here.
I’ve been feeling more and more like it’s time for me to finally pull the plug on Facebook, even though it’s really, really difficult to suddenly cut myself off from pretty much everyone I know. (And my family would kill me if I suddenly deprived them of photos of my kid.) I’ve sorta had it in the back of my mind that I’m gonna keep my account right up until I finish this stupid album, and I can get the word out, and then after that’s run its course I’ll shut my account down and spend more time over here.
And it’s gonna be a while until this album gets finished. So there’s no real timetable just yet.
In any event, I came across this Kottke post that resonated pretty heavily with me – not just because I used to be a die-hard Livejournal user, but because even after all these years I’ve never felt quite as part of a community as I did over there. There’s no question that WordPress is a better platform for creating stuff, but it’s awfully tough to foster friendships and connections here. Facebook (for me, at least) was never about meeting new people, it was only ever about reconnecting with people I’d lost touch with. Twitter (for me) is almost entirely about reading what other people have to say, because anything I write there barely ripples the water’s endless surface.
AOL IM 4eva, is what I’m saying.
Anyway, the post inside that Kottke thing is here, and it’s great, and this pull-quote is hitting me exactly where I live.
It is psychological gravity, not technical inertia, however, that is the greater force against the open web. Human beings are social animals and centralized social media like Twitter and Facebook provide a powerful sense of ambient humanity—the feeling that “others are here”—that is often missing when one writes on one’s own site. Facebook has a whole team of Ph.D.s in social psychology finding ways to increase that feeling of ambient humanity and thus increase your usage of their service.
So: Far Cry 5 comes out this week; my rental copy of Ni No Kuni 2 should be arriving today; I’m continuing to move along in QUBE 2, which is a Portal-esque first-person puzzler that breaks my brain in interesting and very satisfying ways; and there’s some other indie puzzlers that I’d like to get back to, when I have time, which I don’t. But now that the basement’s back, I can at least make the attempt.